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Learning about respectful relationships and consent

Respect, communication and empathy are foundations for healthy relationships. Supporting young people to develop these skills promotes healthy development and prevents harmful sexual behaviours.

Make respect and consent part of every day

Consent and respectful relationships are often discussed in the context of sex and relationships education, but children and young people begin learning about these concepts long before conversations about sex begin.

Through everyday experiences with family, peers and communities, young people learn about communication, empathy, boundaries, respect and choice. The way those around them communicate, resolve conflict, navigate boundaries and respond to the needs of others shapes their understanding of what is considered acceptable behaviour – including consent.

Teaching children and young people about consent is not a single conversation about sex and relationships. It is part of everyday learning and involves supporting young people to:

  • express preferences

  • make age-appropriate choices

  • respect others' boundaries

  • listen to different perspectives

  • accept when someone says ‘no’.

In adolescence, these skills help young people navigate friendships, romantic relationships, online interactions, peer pressure and questions about sex. Developing these foundations can help prevent harm by strengthening their understanding of boundaries, respect, choice and the impact of their behaviour on others.

How this collection helps

The resources in this collection will help you create opportunities for young people to learn and practise respect, communication, boundaries and consent in their everyday lives. You'll find guidance, activities and conversation tools, including resources developed for and with diverse communities.

Resources for people working with young people

Guidance, activities and tools to support conversations and learning about respect, relationships and consent.

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Yarning about boy's business

A resource to share with Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander boys about changes that happen during puberty, the importance of consent, how to maintain healthy relationships and safe sex.

Family Planning NSW • 2022

Resources for sharing with young people

Information and activities to help young people build healthy relationships and understand consent.

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The low down: your guide to sexual health and relationships

This guide provides information about relationships, consent, sex and sexual health. Share with young people, particularly those from a non-English speaking background, to support their understanding.

Family Planning NSW
Yarning about boy's business

A resource to share with Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander boys about changes that happen during puberty, the importance of consent, how to maintain healthy relationships and safe sex.

Family Planning NSW • 2022

Resources for sharing with parents and carers

Practical resources to help parents and carers support learning about respect, boundaries and healthy relationships.

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Relationships and romance: pre-teens and teenagers

A guide to share with parents and carers of pre-teens and teens about romance, relationships and sex, including what's developmentally expected and tips for starting conversations.

Raising Children Network • 2025

Tailored for specific communities

Resources developed for and with diverse communities to support culturally safe, inclusive and accessible approaches to building respectful relationships and consent skills in young people.

Browse resources by topic

The low down: your guide to sexual health and relationships

This guide provides information about relationships, consent, sex and sexual health. Share with young people, particularly those from a non-English speaking background, to support their understanding.

Family Planning NSW
Let's Yarn! Yarning with teenagers

A resource to share with Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander families to support yarning with teenagers about bodies, sex, relationships and online safety.

WA Department of Health
Yarning about boy's business

A resource to share with Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander boys about changes that happen during puberty, the importance of consent, how to maintain healthy relationships and safe sex.

Family Planning NSW • 2022

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Parents and carers

If you’re a parent or carer seeking information or worrying about a behaviour, you're not alone. Find resources to help you understand child sexual development, support safety, and respond to concerns about sexual behaviour.

Children and young people

It’s normal to have questions about your body, feelings, sex and relationships. If you’re a young person looking for information – head here. We’ve got information just for you.