Relationships and romance: pre-teens and teenagers
A guide to share with parents and carers of pre-teens and teens about romance, relationships and sex, including what's developmentally expected and tips for starting conversations.
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Published on 2025
How this resource can help
Use this resource to
Understand how pre-teens and teenagers may think, feel and behave as their interest in romance and relationships develops
Share with parents and carers to support conversations about romance, relationships and sex
Access information about where to seek additional advice or support if needed
It covers
How young people's experiences of relationships change during the pre-teen and teenage years
When you might expect to see changes in your child's approach to relationships and romantic interests
Tips for talking with pre-teens and teenagers about romance, relationships and sex
Ways to provide support during relationship break-ups
Places to go for additional information and advice
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If you are a parent or carer
You’re in the right place! This is a guide written for you – it helps you understand what your child may be experiencing and how to provide support. If you’re worried about something specific, you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Last reviewed by Together We Can: 24 July 2026
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