Back to top

Recognising problematic and harmful sexual behaviour online

You don’t need to be certain something is wrong to look into it further. If you’re worried about something a child or young person saw, said, shared or experienced online, these resources can help.

What can problematic and harmful sexual behaviour look like online?

Children and young people’s lives are increasingly lived online as well as offline.

Technology and online interactions can shape how problematic and harmful sexual behaviours develop, occur and escalate.

Recognising when behaviours, interactions or experiences online have become unsafe is an important step in preventing harm and responding early.

Online harm involving sexual behaviours can include:

  • image-based abuse, like sharing sexual images without consent or pressuring someone to send them

  • children and young people creating and sharing sexual images of themselves

  • unwanted sexual messages or requests

  • using social media, games and apps in ways that create pressure, coercion or harm.

How this collection helps

These resources will help you spot the signs of when behaviours become unsafe.

You'll find information on how sexual development and interactions play out online, what’s appropriate at different ages, information for specific communities, and when to seek extra support.

If you're less familiar with the online platforms, apps or games children and young people use, these resources will help build your understanding.

Resources for people working with children and young people

Guides, fact sheets and tools for anyone working with children and young people.

Browse resources by topic

Resources for sharing with children and young people

Fact sheets, games, videos and more for sharing with children and young people to help them spot what’s okay and what’s not when online.

Browse resources by topic

Tailored for specific communities

Resources developed for and with diverse communities to support culturally safe, inclusive and accessible approaches.

Browse resources by topic

When to think about getting help

Webpage to share with parents and carers of children and young people with intellectual disability and autism, outlining sexual behaviours that might cause concern and advice on seeking help.

Planet Puberty

Not a practitioner?

Parents and carers

If you’re a parent or carer seeking information or worrying about a behaviour, you're not alone. Find resources to help you understand child sexual development, support safety, and respond to concerns about sexual behaviour.

Children and young people

It’s normal to have questions about your body, feelings, sex and relationships. If you’re a young person looking for information – head here. We’ve got information just for you.