Recognising and responding to harmful sexual behaviours
This fact sheet can help workers support parents and carers to recognise harmful sexual behaviours and understand how to respond.
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How this resource can help
Use this resource to
Help parents and carers distinguish between developmentally expected and harmful sexual behaviours
Support parents and carers to respond calmly, appropriately and supportively when harmful sexual behaviour occurs
Help families understand when further support may be needed
Introduce safety planning and the importance of responding to identified concerns or risks
It covers
What developmentally expected, problematic, and harmful sexual behaviours can look like
The STOP approach for responding to harmful sexual behaviour: Stay calm, Talk, Observe and Pass on
Children and young people’s rights and needs when harmful sexual behaviour occurs
Caring for yourself as a parent or carer
Services and sources of further support
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If you are a parent or carer
You’re in the right place. This resource can help you understand what harmful sexual behaviours are and how to respond. It’s important that everyone affected has access to support, including you. Use the link below to find support for you and your family.
Last reviewed by Together We Can: 23 September 2026
What is problematic and harmful sexual behaviour
Problematic and harmful sexual behaviour affects children, families, and communities. Understanding it clearly is the first step toward effective prevention, recognition, and response.
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If you’re a parent or carer seeking information or worrying about a behaviour, you're not alone. Find resources to help you understand child sexual development, support safety, and respond to concerns about sexual behaviour.
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