Autism, consent and sexual consent: a learning guide for children and teenagers
A guide on consent for parents of children and young people with autism, with practical advice for introducing the concept in early years and building and reinforcing understanding as children grow.
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Published on 2023
How this resource can help
Use this resource to
Support parents and carers to build their child's understanding of consent and sexual consent as they grow and develop
Help parents and carers have age-appropriate conversations about consent and personal boundaries
Demonstrate ways to model consent in everyday situations
It covers
Tips and ideas for younger children, including modelling consent and teaching children about body parts
Tips and ideas for primary aged children, including preparing them for physical changes in puberty and introducing rules about consent, touch and appropriate behaviours
Tips and ideas for teenagers, including talking about physical changes, sexual feelings, recognising unsafe situations and creating clear rules around consent for sexual activity
Helping nonverbal children and teens communicate consent
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If you are a parent or carer
You’re in the right place! This is a guide written for you – it can help you support your child’s understanding of consent and sexual consent as they grow. If you’re worried about something specific, you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Last reviewed by Together We Can: 09 July 2026
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