Harmful sexual behaviour: supporting children and teenagers who have engaged in it
Share this guide with parents and carers if their child has displayed harmful sexual behaviour. It explains how to respond supportively and work with professionals to help their child.
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Published on 2025
How this resource can help
Use this resource to
Support parents and carers whose child has displayed harmful sexual behaviour to
Recognise the importance of seeking professional support
Prepare for conversations with a specialist service
Work alongside professionals to support behaviour change
It covers
Accessing professional treatment and specialist support
Practical strategies to support a child's wellbeing in everyday life, relationships, and emotional development, including how parents can talk with and listen to their child
Support for parents and carers, including self-care strategies and where to get help
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If you are a parent or carer
You’re in the right place. This is a guide for parents and carers whose child has displayed harmful sexual behaviour. It steps through practical advice on seeking professional support, responding in supportive ways, and helping your child make positive changes. If you’re worried about something specific, you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Last reviewed by Together We Can: 10 July 2026
What is problematic and harmful sexual behaviour
Problematic and harmful sexual behaviour affects children, families, and communities. Understanding it clearly is the first step toward effective prevention, recognition, and response.
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